I read a blog in one of my favorite blogs Baller Alert and the post was about a 30 something year of woman moving to Dubai to find a rich husband. She was tired of working as a legal secreatary for 15 years. She wanted to meet and marry a wealthy man and have the lifestyle she always dreamed about. Which made me think is it really that bad now that woman are moving to another country to meet marriage minded men. She felt the men in New York were just playing games and were not serious and in Dubai the men their hold a different set of values and were more marriage minded.
My girlfriend and I were just discussing the shortage or lack of serious minded eligible bachelors. She was saying how tired she was of meeting men who just wanted casual sexual relationships or had girlfriends and wives but did not chose to disclose that vital information and just wanted to have their cake and eat it too. I agreed with her as well but I believe woman are at fault as well. It is important for woman to express what they are looking for in a relationship. Do not feel like their is something wrong with letting a man know what you want. If he is scared off so what. You saved yourself the trouble of finding out later that he is not the man for you . Communication and honesty is key to building a healthy and lasting relationship. Ask the right questions to see if the man your dating is married or has a girlfriend. Look for signs as well. As woman we have woman's intuition so if something does not feel or seem right it probably isn't. Exercise caution and common sense.
Until next time, MUaH
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