Do you find yourself wondering why other women are able to snag a good husband and you can't even land a date. Don't kid yourself & use the typical excuse that there are no good black men available. With a defeated & pessimistic attitude like that you are setting yourself up to remain alone. There is nothing wrong with being single if that is truly what you want but if you want to land a worthwhile mate follow my tips.
First work on your inner issues & insecurties. Work on your self esteem. Build your confidence and know that you deserve a good man. Pamper yourself. Go to the spa & get yourself a deep relaxing body massage, facial, manicure & pedicure. When you look good you feel good. Join a gym & work out. It will ease your mind & body of life's daily stress & keep your body tight & sexy .
If your not in a spiritual insitution join one. You need God in your life to help you when your in doubt & need spiritual guidance. Read the Bible. Go to museums, conventions, lectures anything to expand your mind.. Broaden your horizons. Read literture & keep up with current events & pop culture. Once you have your inner issues resolved you can begin dating. Most importantly love yourself and know your self worth. Do not settle for anyone who is less than a gentleman.
