Having a Man Does Not Define Who We Are

It is very critical for women to know their worth. Some women are content just to be in a relationship even if they are not happy, just for the sake of saying they have a man.
Having a man does not define who we are, we are just as intelligent and beautiful being single. Please do not settle for any man or remain in a relationship where you are clearly not happy.
We need to have a loving and positive relationship with ourselves before we can have it with a man. Having self worth and self love will save us so much unnecessary heartache. When we are content at being by ourselves, enjoying it and finding fullfillment with our own company. We will have that confidence and natural air about ourselves that will attract positive and great men. Men love confident and self assured women.
Once we have that we will radiate that and the negative men who cross our paths will sense that and keep walking.

Dear Kat,

I really hope that you can help me. I was seeing a guy for about 4 months and I broke up with him the other day. We were friends for about 10 months. We had our ups and downs but for the most part I thought that he really cared about me until we broke up. He told me he was seeing another girl & I flipped out after hearing this & severed all ties. Should I respect the fact that he was honest for telling me or be upset because we had sex the other day & I feel used & disrespected.

Signed
Disrespected

Dear Disrespected,

Be glad that he was honest with you. Be happy and enjoy life, there are many men out here. Don't sulk over no man.
He obviously was not the right man for you, get over him and move on. You will be much happier when you do.