Dear Kat,

I really hope that you can help me. I was seeing a guy for about 4 months and I broke up with him the other day. We were friends for about 10 months. We had our ups and downs but for the most part I thought that he really cared about me until we broke up. He told me he was seeing another girl & I flipped out after hearing this & severed all ties. Should I respect the fact that he was honest for telling me or be upset because we had sex the other day & I feel used & disrespected.

Signed
Disrespected

Dear Disrespected,

Be glad that he was honest with you. Be happy and enjoy life, there are many men out here. Don't sulk over no man.
He obviously was not the right man for you, get over him and move on. You will be much happier when you do.